Give the Gift of Motivation and Inspiration!
What could be better than passing on your enthusiasm!
The best is yet to come!
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Give the Gift of Motivation and Inspiration!
What could be better than passing on your enthusiasm!
The best is yet to come!
click here http://www.brucewconner.com
Mirrors are amazing devices. In my physical training, my coach and I frequently use mirrors to adjust my body position. Yet, I use mirrors in a figurative way as well. A coach is like a mirror. When we can see ourselves through the eyes of a coach, change becomes possible and probable. In contrast, trying to be my own expert has been disastrous for me. Selecting someone who can help me along my path is very important. Such a guide needs to be a good fit. I have had several coaches in my life in speed skating as well as other endeavors and no there is doubt I will have more. This coaching idea can be applied to any part of my life, the principles are universal. I trust that each coach who has come along has been the right one at the right time for my learning process.
The coach-athlete relationship needs to embody a certain synchronicity. Everyone puts out a certain vibration, and I’ve learned that following my gut and being sensitive to that feeling when picking a coach is very important. This will help the relationship grow, flourish, and be good for both of us. That is the goal in a perfect world. The real world is very different, but we must continually strive to obtain what we need.
The first question to ask when considering coaching is, “Am I coach-able?” This will be a rudimentary question for some and a very difficult one for others. I have been at opposite ends of this spectrum in different parts of my life. As a youngster, I attended a few summer camps to learn about skating and training. I had a correspondence relationship with a couple of coaches. One was Dutch and one was Norwegian. We wrote letters that took weeks to deliver. By learning as much as I could, I became my own expert. Because I developed some hard and fast rules for my training, I became unshakable in most of my ideas and was not very coach-able at the time.
Years later as a masters skater, I realized I had a lot of knowledge and expertise. I had wisdom based on my life experiences and was an expert on many things, but there was still some blockage where coaching was concerned. I was not moving forward as well as I could, so I accepted that I could not see myself as well as a coach could. I was becoming open to new ideas about how to do things, and I was now ready to listen to a coach.
My current coach says that I am very coach-able. To me, this means I am willing to hear what she has to say and try it to the best of my ability. I no longer feel that I have to justify what I am doing, just try to do it differently. This attitude has taken a long time to adopt. My ability to do so is connected to my improved self-esteem. The better we feel about ourselves, the easier it is to change. That’s what being coach-able is all about.
The coach-athlete relationship is similar to a family relationship in many ways. In order for it to work well and flourish, it must be given the priority of just below family.
Proximity is important in any relationship. Long distances are possible in coach-athlete relationships, but they can be hard. There is no substitute for looking into someone’s eyes and seeing their body language to get the feedback that a coach needs to make adjustments. Having a coach who can be on the scene is the best arrangement. When you are willing to do the work of finding and fostering a coach-athlete relationship, the benefits outweigh the costs every time.
Communication between a coach and an athlete is the only way an athlete can make progress. In order for the communication to be effective, I must be absolutely honest with myself first, then with my coach. My career in aviation has helped me to see what effective communication can do. To pass on those lessons, I will explain what I know works for me in the coach-athlete relationship.
For effective communication to take place, people must follow some essential steps. First, the idea must be verbalized. This verbalization must be done in a constructive way. The next step is timing. The information must take place when the athlete is attentive. If my coach yells something at me when I am totally focused on my performance, hearing is impossible. As a dad and soccer coach, I remember never to shout anything to the boy with the ball during a game. Talking to the boys without the ball is more effective. In addition, if the athlete is alert and attentive, then he or she has a better chance of hearing what the coach is trying to get across.
Conversely, as an athlete, I need to pay attention to what my coach is trying to get across to me. There is no harm in saying, “ Sorry, I could not hear you, say again?” or “What did you say? I could not listen till now.”
But for true communication to take place, the people involved must have a meaningful exchange. As a coach, you want some insightful response back from your athlete. If my coach tries to convey a point of technique to me, then says “Do you understand?” and I respond with a yes or a nod, she has no way of telling whether any real ideas were exchanged. On the other hand, if I say something meaningful or insightful back or if I physically demonstrate understanding, my coach knows I absorbed her point.
To sum up, it is important to communicate clearly, honestly, and when the listener is available to really listen. Then make sure that something meaningful and insightful is the result of the exchange. Everyone communicates differently. It is up to me, as an athlete, to make sure that I effectively take in what my coach is trying to get across to me. It is in my interest to have a coach and my responsibility to make the relationship work.
Find and foster a coach-athlete relationship and the rewards will great!
The 15 months since my last US Olympic trials at age 57 has been very different for me.
I am not focused on a goal. I have tried to be sensitive to what my mind, body, and spirit are telling me.
For those of you who are driven by goals this may be foreign to you, it was to me at first. For those of you who do not set distinct goals you may be able to relate better.
Here is where I am and what I have learned.
I am healthier than ever before, stronger than ever, better rested, and my spirit is calmer.
Since I have not been training in such a goal oriented driven way I have allowed my mind, body and spirit to guide me in what to do.
When I feel like moving, I do. When I feel the need to rest, I rest. When I feel like pushing hard, I push. When I need to have fun, I keep it light.
Some of my training helps with sleep management because of my 3-4 trips to asia per month.
Building a luge track in the snow for my grandkids was a blast, a workout, and a memorable.
Shoveling snow was not a chore but a way to move and be productive.
Playing cardio tennis helped me to reconnect to a fun way to move.
Skating a few times this year in Milwaukee helps me to reconnect to my love of skating, my skating family, and humbles me every time as to how hard skating fast really is.
Weight training at the gym is fun because I can push hard if I want to or not. It is pretty cool that I found that I like to push just for the sake of pushing.
This intuitive training wisdom comes from within, I must be sensitive and pay attention.
The result will allow me to create a future of health, happiness, balance, and grace.
I have the ability to create my own future of health and well being and I take responsibilty for it. My best is yet to come, so is yours! Break down your self limiting beliefs, journey towards wholeness, and have fun!
General Training Priciples: Part 1
Good luck to all my Masters Speed Skating brothers and sisters competing in Calgary this weekend at the Masters World All-Around Championships. All of you will have fun, enjoy the competition and family of masters, as well as set seasons best, personal bests and World Records!
One of my early memories of growing up is doing crazy things. Little did I know that this kind of play was the beginning of my training. Bart (one of my two younger brothers) and I were probably about 6 and 8 years old at the time. We had skateboards, the kind that were about 2 feet long with metal roller skating wheels bolted to the bottom. Our driveway from the house to the sidewalk was sloped slightly, so we could get a little speed rolling downhill, maybe a fast walking speed. After mastering the skateboard on the driveway, we tried some other stuff. Bart liked hanging upside down on the monkey bars across the street in the park. When we started to go down the driveway on the skateboard in a handstand, it seemed like a logical progression from our other activities. This helped both of us to develop strength and balance early. Certainly, it helped Bart in his gymnastics career, and it also helped me in my balance for skating.
Making time to put in the work can be hard. I was asked the other day about how I find the time to train at this level. My answer was that I don’t find the time, I make the time. This goes back to setting goals and priorities. Following through with a training plan is easier when I make the time. It has taken years to put myself into a job that allows blocks of time off to pursue my other passions. By carefully looking at our schedules, we can figure out ways to make time to pursue our goals and keep our priorities straight. We all have unexpected things come up in our lives that require us to put us off our training schedules. Adaptation with balance is the key to making progress.
Athletic training, in general, has two major parts: building the motor (strength, endurance, cardio), and then developing the technique to apply it. My knowledge and expertise has been developed by trial and error and by talking to other athletes on similar paths. The lessons I’ve learned in training may be actively applied to other parts of life. My training regimen has eight parts.
Practicing the sport
Warm-up, cool-down, volume, and intensity
Next week I will expand on general training principles.
We all need to make decisions about how and when to train. When to go hard, and when to taper off for competition. When to go hard in a workout, when to rest and recover. Here are some proven guidelines to making those decisions yearly, monthly, weekly, daily and sometimes moment to moment managing our bodies and minds to be our best ever!
There is a reason that the Olympics are every 4 years. I have been through 2 complete cycles recently now and can attest to the natural flow that it takes. After an Olympic year we all need a break from the intense training. There is a natural need for a less intense season. Then the build up can continue again towards the next Olympic year. We all need a break physically, mentally, emotionally, etc.
The speed skating competition season starts in September and ends in March. After the season is over, a few weeks off or just recovery work, then off ice training again in preparation for skating in the fall. Time off consists of recovery work and fun stuff. I do a lot of low intensity bike work, tennis, golf, swimming, etc.
When training again, increasing gradually, hard for 3 weeks and easy for 1 week. The easy week is very important for the body to have some recovery. Without a break we are subject to over training and susceptible to injury and illness.
During the competition season I need to be able to peak at the right time. This requires an easy week or two prior to the competition. The longer the hard training period the longer the taper prior to the competition. The taper is done by keeping the intensity but reducing the volume.
In a weekly cycle I train hard all week and take Sundays off. Sometimes hard training for two days and take an easy recovery day between. I still need to get in a certain amount of cardio training, strength, and skating in every week.
Even within a single workout there are cycles. After the warmup and into the meat of a workout I cycle between intense work then rest and recovery. Intervals followed by a set rest or A very hard effort followed by complete rest. There a number of different kinds of workouts with this in mind depending on what the objective is that I am trying to obtain. At the end of the workout I finish the cycle by cooling down and stretching.
So what to do with this information? Set up a training plan for the 4 year cycle, yearly, monthly, weekly, and daily. Revise it accordingly to fit your needs, desires, competitions and reactions to training feedback and recovery.
Remember, work, recovery, rest, repeat.
My ithlete HRV tool helps with determining how hard to train. It helps me to measure my readiness to train hard or take an easy day.
The Native American indians have a philosophy about circles. Respect the circles and the cycles of life, it will pay great dividends in all areas of your life.
Book signing Road Runner Sports, Wilmette, IL Saturday 1/31/2015 11am to 1pm.
How to start your best season ever!
First, did you rest, reflect, and recover from last season? Are you ready to get started for the long haul?
Next, here are the steps required.
Set your intention. Make your choices.
Outline an overall plan. Your goals must be specific, measurable, and have a time frame. Look at the entire season, then work backward to your training and preparations. Start with the framework, then get specific. Plan by the month, week, day, then each task in the workout. Be flexible with the plan, it will change.
Get your network together for support. Enlist the people around you that you need for help. Tell them your plans.
Get your equipment together. This includes what you need to compete, and train. Remember to include good nutrition.
Enlist a coach or schedule some camps and clinics to learn more about your sport and competing. Study training methods of other successful athletes that you know. Do what works. Do not reinvent the wheel.
Train as if you are competing.
Stay balanced in your efforts. Start slow and build. Keep your priorities straight.
Remember to attend to your emotional needs, they are just as important as the physical. Schedule, yoga, meditation, etc, to keep balanced on the emotional side. Rehearse your competition mentally so you are prepared to execute to the best of your ability. See yourself accomplishing your achievements. Have visible reminders of the goals you have set.
Exercise courage in starting your plan. The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. Start walking…
Set your intention. Make your choices. Execute your plan. You will get the results you work for.
Good luck on your journey, have the best season ever!
I have posted about each one of these subjects in detail in the last several months. Check out my archives of past posts.
Book signing in Kildeer went very well yesterday with about 30 people attending. Next event is Saturday 1/24/2015 11am to 1pm at the Road Runner Sports in Naperville, IL
Balance is a fine art. In speed skating, a 1.1 milimeter blade is the point of contact with the ice. To master balance is the first priority. Proper skating position, adding power, then repeat with tempo, generating speed. Managing energy from the fast twitch muscle fibers for the start, acceleration, and high-speed turns, to the slow twitch fibers to keep me in the lowest position for maximum power and efficiency.
These principles are universal to any endeavor physical, mental, etc.
Falls happen to the best of us every now and then. By pushing limits, chances are greater of a fall but the rewards are higher too.
Falling is part of life, so is pain. Off balance, out of focus, inefficient, unproductive, exposed to injury and disease. Balance is just the opposite, focused, productive, efficient, healthy, happy, content and serene. More sensitive to being off-balance today, I can make necessary more easily now.
A learning process like anything else, the benefits are applicable to all areas of my life. Since they affect all areas of my life then I must give balance the priority that it deserves, top. Most of us spend about 90% of our time looking over the edge, focusing on the problems to balance. By finding out what works, keep doing it, refining it little by little is the best formula for success.
Priorities are the foundation of good decision-making. Keeping my priorities straight, with good judgements about where I am, my goals, and how to get there. If I am confused about my decisions by revisiting my priorities, the decisions become clearer. Priorities in the order of God first, family second, work third and recreation fourth.
Ever know a few people who are very busy but always seem to have time for the most important things? This is an example of having priorities straight. Anything that is urgent, is rarely important, and anything that is important is rarely urgent. Timing of my actions is just as important as the action itself.
Clear goals, balance, priorities, all help to establish the landscape. Confident, focused, productive, efficient, happy, healthy, serene, trusting the path.